Just a Thought

My first entry on my blog.  After 20 years of being a full-time, stay-at-home, carpooling, laundry folding, volunteering, grocery shopping, care taking and most of all fully enjoying it all mother, my job ended. Ok, maybe it didn’t end completely – with my kids  both in college, there are plenty of phone calls, BBMs, texts, facebook chats, google chats, and a few emails here and there to keep me fairly involved in their lives.

Over the past year, while my son slogged through the muck of learning to be a college student during his freshman year, coming up for air every so often to check in with me and his dad and relate the horrors of being a student and the escapades of parties at University of Arizona, I learned the value of distance and the terror of the ringing telephone in the middle of the night (MOM! This girl is PASSED OUT! We need to call an AMBULANCE!).

At the same time, my daughter spent her spring semester in London, and practically every weekend was traipsing off to some country or another (MOM! The pasta at this restaurant in Florence LITERALLY made me CRY it was so AMAZING!!!), while my husband Peter and I cut coupons and played with our dog Lambeau and went to movies and mostly just enjoyed the quiet and tried to save money.

It was a difficult year for me (and when I say year I mean SCHOOL year…do we ever stop thinking that way?) in a lot of ways, as I had never in my life given any thought to what the heck I would do after my job as a full-time mother was over. I suppose I had some vague idea that my husband and I would give lovely dinner parties, go on weekend getaways, do a little shopping, a little napping…I don’t know. What I didn’t count on was my need to DO something!

 

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5 Comments

  • You are a wonderful mom and empty nest in just another stage you will all excel in. Before you know it extend family will be added and the nest will be full again. Connect with your friends we are all traveling the same path one way or another

  • I really love this honest post, and its true what do you do after your kids are all grown up and you have plenty of me time. I have worked with a lot of women who have ventured into online business because they wanted to keep busy, and also wanted to feel needed. I love your style of writing.

    Sophie

    • This year will be the first time one of our kids will not be home for Christmas, and I don’t know yet how that will make me feel when the day comes. I think I went home every Christmas until I was miarred, at age 27, so it’s happening a little sooner for my son. I will need to think about filling the house with friends at Christmas I think. I’ll keep you posted.

  • Sharon – Thanks for connecting with me at my empty nest blog, wingtipswire.com. I always like to start by reading the first post on a blog, and this one is such a great kick-off, with eloquent expressions of feelings common to most of us empty nesters. As a fellow Wildcat, I hope your son is doing well at Arizona! I'll keep in touch.

    Kristi Woodworth

  • So glad you are blogging, and happy blogoversary!

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